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With this renaissance comes some redefinition as old stereotypes and restrictions yield to more complexity and contradictions. Most queer cultures have their own variation of the idea relating to their specific social contexts. As with any identity that challenges expectations, butch people can often receive antagonism or backlash for simply being themselves.
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